Am I loosing my friends?? Please Help?

I am sure you can find better friends than those couple of bitches. Seriously, you don't need to put up with that, you sound like you are far too intelligent for that childish idiocy. You are better than that. If these relationships mean that much to you then you should talk to your best friend about it, tell her that you don't appreciate being ganged up on and overall disrespected. be firm, not bitchy but also not whiny. If you are going to talk to her you have to be confident without being belligerent. And most importantly please, please understand that you are going to be okay; no matter what other people think about you. You got this! Good luck!