What is UP with Virgo man with libra venus, he is on HEAT,reasons why please?

I have Venus Libra and when we get to feeling it, we really feel it! I also have Pluto conjunct my Venus and Rising in 1st house. Venus Libra look very into sexuality without really being into anyone...i'm sure its not fair, i never want to be with or sleep with people, i'm just loving the sexual feeling and moving with it while dancing...usually i'd prefer for people not to touch me, grind me or get to close I just want to flow with it by myself. They rarely leave it alone i always have some jerk thinking i'm there for them! It totally ruins the feeling and i just get away from them....i don't go out anymore unless i'm with someone i'm really with because the feeling is so intense I don't think its good to be alone like that. Also if you don't have someone its so annoying to have people bumping up against you all night and all you want to do is dance, alone, i can't stand it! If im with somebody i love though, its onnnnn, theres no telling where that feeling will take us! I love the feeling but its not something you should play around with, im sure men think your just a tease and you have to be careful!